Being a brown-skinned, British-born Asian Muslim woman, I have always connected
strongly to both my ethnic background and the varied, spirited society the UK stands
for. Still, the summer of 2024 broke the sense of security I have spent a lifetime fostering. While my family was away for a few days, on a hot August day, I discovered myself alone in my house surrounded by the mounting anxiety about the riots breaking out around the nation. Images of crime, damage, and rage permeated
the news, a fury that appeared to be aimed at individuals like me.
That evening, trapped away from the tumult outside, I sat in my living room with all the windows and doors carefully closed as the sun set and the heat persisted. The usually consoling quiet of my house felt stifling, interrupted only by the far-off sounds of disturbance in my neighbourhood. Overwhelming fear drove me to shake and almost cry as I talked to the police over the phone, so sorely wanting assurance that I was secure.
A friend, also a therapist, volunteered to bring over a baseball bat so I could defend
myself—a very out-of-character but well-meaning gesture that neatly summed up a crazy situation. It was 2024, yet it felt like a trip through time to an era of open hate and terror. The event served as a sobering reminder of how rapidly the fabric of our society may fall apart and how those of us who are typically considered as “others” might find ourselves targeted during crises.
This encounter caused me to consider closely the dynamics under action during these disturbances. Trained in Internal Family Systems (IFS), I started to view the events through the prism of this paradigm, spotting the several “parts” at work—not only within individuals but also throughout our society. What follows are my own views of the riots through an IFS lens.
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